One of the biggest fears people have around emotions isn’t the emotion itself — it’s what they’re afraid will happen if they really feel it.

Most of us have a reflex when an uncomfortable emotion shows up.

One of the most painful and most common dynamics I see in relationships goes something like this:

Get ready... something that we do not talk about and should be talking about more. At home and with other females. 

We often describe the mental load as the endless to-do list running quietly in the background.

Let’s be honest for a second.

As women, many of us notice how often men are expected to move through the world with this quiet, steady strength, and how society subtly teaches boys and men to push their feelings down, tough things out, and handle emotional pressure alone, which creates a kind of silence around men’s mental health that is not only unnecessary but genuinely harmful in the long run.

For a lot of us, January arrives with a bit of a heavy sigh. The sparkle and celebrations of December are behind us, the days are still short and dark, the weather can feel grey and sluggish, and everywhere you look, there seems to be pressure to “start fresh” or totally reinvent yourself overnight.

Every January it shows up again.

Christmas is soaked in tradition, familiarity, family, friends, and meaning — which is beautiful, but it also means that any loss becomes much more visible.

Christmas... don't get me started on Christmas.

Sorry, I know I i have already written a blog on AI but another idea sprang to mind around AI and Technology.